Part 2 - Responding to @ReformationRedPill "Does Scripture TRULY forbid polygamy"
Does “husband of one wife” forbid polygamy? Part 2 answers the invented “sub-creational sin” category, the 1 Timothy 3:2 elder argument, Calvin and Chrysostom, and shows from Abimelech in Genesis 20 that adultery is taking another man’s wife — not taking a wife.
The heart of Reformation Red Pill’s case is 1 Timothy 3:2 — “the husband of one wife” — read as Paul outlawing plural marriage for every man, not just elders. This part answers that the verse names a positive qualification (be married, be faithful), never says only one, and that calling polygyny sin requires a law no one can produce. Sin is the transgression of God’s law; an appeal to Calvin, Chrysostom, or a new “sub-creational” category is not a command.
This is Part 2 of a 3-part response — start with Part 1 and finish with Part 3.
The argument answered
- The “sub-creational sin” category invented from the Westminster Catechism’s “want of conformity” — a man-made label used to call sin what God’s law never forbids.
- The claim that divorce is itself a sin God merely “regulated,” answered by God describing Himself as a husband of two wives who issues a writ of divorce to Israel.
- 1 Timothy 3:2: the Greek heis means one, first, or some — “husband of one wife” no more caps a man at one wife than “one car” caps him at one car; read as only-one, it would disqualify God, Jacob, David, and Solomon from eldership.
- The appeal to Calvin and Chrysostom: respected men importing a Greco-Roman bias, calling polygyny a “stain” and “corruption” without ever citing the law it transgresses.
- The negative-inference fallacy and the consistency trap: if “husband of one wife” binds all men, then zero wives is also disqualifying — celibacy condemned — and serial divorce-and-remarry would somehow qualify.
- The Levitical high priest (a virgin bride only) shows particular office-rules don’t become universal sins — marrying a widow isn’t sin just because a high priest couldn’t.
- Abimelech in Genesis 20: already a polygamist, he takes Sarah “in the integrity of his heart,” and God calls him righteous — the only problem was that she was married, proving adultery is taking another man’s wife.
Scriptures examined
- 1 Timothy 3:2 — overseer, “husband of one wife”
- Exodus 21:10 — a second wife’s food, clothing, and conjugal rights protected
- Jeremiah 3:8 — God divorces faithless Israel; God as husband of two
- Ruth 4:11 — Rachel and Leah built the house of Israel
- 2 Chronicles 24:1–3 — Joash did right in the Lord’s sight; Jehoiada gave him two wives
- Leviticus 20:10 — the death penalty for a woman with two men (the actual law on adultery)
- Genesis 20 — Abimelech, Sarah, and “the integrity of your heart”
Why it matters
If a sin must transgress a law, then the burden is to name the command — chapter, verse, and penalty — that forbids a man a second wife. Where there is no law, there is no transgression.


