BibleMarriages

The purpose of BibleMarriages

Faithful teaching.
Faithful households.

To help people examine Scripture carefully and take seriously what it asks of us in marriage, family, and the life of the household.

Illustration of a father teaching from an open Bible while the mother, children, and grandparents listen.
An illustration of a father teaching his household from Scripture with patience and care.

Why this work exists

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BibleMarriages is an independent, reader-supported teaching project. The work brings together articles, videos, biblical studies, and responses to common objections about marriage and the household.

Our convictions include male headship under Christ and the belief that Scripture permits polygyny. These are distinctive positions, and readers deserve a clear account of the passages and reasoning behind them. The goal is careful study that bears fruit in faithfulness and responsibility.

You are welcome to examine the work before deciding what you think. The teaching is freely available, and financial support is voluntary.

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The standard for the work

Truth joined to care

Study with care

We invite readers to examine our claims in Scripture, including the conclusions that challenge familiar teaching. Questions and corrections belong in that process.

Acts 17:11 · 1 Thessalonians 5:21

Teach with patience

The Lord’s servant is called to be kind, able to teach, patient when wronged, and gentle in correction. That is a standard for how this work should speak, especially in disagreement.

2 Timothy 2:24–25

Honor the people in the house

Teaching about headship must carry the full weight of a husband’s duties: self-giving love, nourishment, care, and honor. Scripture’s charge to husbands includes a direct command against harshness.

Ephesians 5:25–29 · Colossians 3:19 · 1 Peter 3:7

These passages are a standard to answer to. If a study falls short in its reading of Scripture or its treatment of people, please bring that concern to BibleMarriages.

From the library

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The most recent published studies and conversations are below. Read or watch something, follow the references, and judge its usefulness for yourself.

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The Man as King of His Domain — Live with Abrie Kilian

A live conversation between Pete Rambo and Abrie Kilian of Maxima Potentia on every man as king of his own domain — inheritance and property law in Torah, the layers of patriarchy, gravitas as earned weight, and the legal ground plural families actually stand on.

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Responding to @InspiringPhilosophy on Polygyny — Part 1

Mike Jones of Inspiring Philosophy debated a Hebrew Israelite on Modern-Day Debate and staked his whole case on Leviticus 18:18. Part 1 answers his opening statement — the “a woman to her sister” idiom, Genesis 2:24, Exodus 21:10, and Yah’s own two wives.

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Righteous jealousy requires authority

YHVH calls Himself a jealous God, so jealousy itself is not sin. But every instance of righteous jealousy in scripture belongs to God or a man holding delegated authority. Survey the word: no authority, no righteous jealousy.

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Help the work continue

Prayer, thoughtful questions, sharing a useful study, and financial gifts are all ways to support BibleMarriages. Giving helps sustain the research, writing, recording, and publishing behind this library.

Galatians 6:6 speaks of sharing good things with those who teach. In his appeal for a collection, Paul calls for giving chosen freely, without compulsion (2 Corinthians 9:7). Please give only if you wish to and are able.

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